People are always asking me how to improve their speaking skills. "How did you get so much energy in your speaking?" "You're so funny when you need to be without overdoing it...How did you learn to use humor in your speeches?" "You look so natural in front of an audience...How did you become so comfortable in front of people?"
These are the top three questions I'm asked about speaking. And, I have the same answer for all three of them. Join Toastmasters. Find a club in your area "today" and go visit. Don't plan to visit with the intent to join though. Just visit with the intention to evaluate. I'll tell you why in a moment.....
First, let me explain what Toastmasters is and what it is not. Toastmasters IS a club-like atmosphere where, on average, 10-30 people meet each week or ever other week. There are more than 100 clubs in my state alone and they are all over the world. Toastmasters if your practice forum to enhance your public speaking and leadership skills.
Each meeting has a set format where there are speeches prepared by pre-assigned members. Meaning, you as a guest will not walk in the door and be asked to give a 10-minute talk, so don't worry. Most clubs have 2 or 3 prepared speeches per meeting and they last usually 5-10 minutes each.
Following the speeches, other members of the club are assigned to formally evaluate each speech. They'll typically give lots of kudos and then just one or two things to work on the next time. Evaluations are designed to be very encouraging for the speaker, not ram them into the ground with embarrassment.
The third component of every Toastmasters meeting is Table Topics. This section is designed to assure that each member of the club has an opportunity to speak in front of the group at each meeting. During Table Topics, the "Table Topics Master" (another preassigned member) spends a few minutes before the meeting to come up with a question to ask each Table Topics participant. The Table Topics participant must respond to the question for between 1 and 2 minutes.
Some clubs DO call their visitors up to the front of the room to participate in Table Topics but feel rest assured that you are in no obligation to participate. Just relax and enjoy the show if you're more comfortable.
As you can imagine, this weekly practice of speaking within a supportive group can be the most important step you take toward beginning your career as a speaker. There are many speakers within National Speakers Association who were obviously not part of Toastmasters prior, and their lack of speaking skills makes that proof positive.
Don't skimp on your speaking practice. Whether you are just starting out or are a seasoned professional speaker already, I strongly urge that you join Toastmasters and attend every meeting for the first year. I was a member for 10 years and served as a district officer for three years. There's no single training you can get for yourself that provides more of a launching pad for your skills as a speaker than Toastmasters. Visit
Toastmasters.org to find a club in your area immediately!
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